Embracing Compassion
- Dr. Vonie Leach
We can all agree that our world is filled with evil. There are people who intentionally sow discord and hurt others. The enemy and his gang continuously roam the earth, influencing those who allow them. After all, he comes to kill, steal, and destroy. This evil world makes it hard to open our hearts.
Yet, as followers of Christ, we must.
Christ was compassionate despite the world He lived in and how the people treated Him. We must embrace compassion as well.
Ephesians 4:32 (NLT) says, "Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you."
I know. I know.
We feel like some people do not deserve this effort from us. There are family members, "friends," colleagues, associates, and even strangers who have plotted against us, lied, and so much more.
But I challenge you to think about all the ways you have gone against God, and He still forgave you and showed you grace and mercy.
You may have lied, stolen, or greatly disobeyed the Lord, yet the Lord still allows you and me to live. In the same way that people have hurt and angered us, we have done the same or even worse to God. And Abba still sees fit to show us just how compassionate He is.
God is compassionate. Jesus Christ is compassionate. We must be compassionate too.
Our actions toward others should mirror the grace and mercy we have received from God. To be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving is to recognize the divine love that has been extended to us. Through this lens of grace, we are called to interact with those around us.
1 Peter 3:8 (NLT) says, "Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude."
Sympathizing, loving as family, tenderhearted, and remaining humble are all expressions of Christ-like compassion. We cannot be selective with our compassion. It must be extended to every person we encounter, regardless of their background, circumstances, and what they have done to us (while using wisdom).
Compassion is so important.
Compassion is transformative. It can heal wounds, bridge divides, and create connections. When we choose to live compassionately, we are choosing to reflect the heart of Christ.
If you are struggling to be compassionate, here are some things you can do to embrace compassion:
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kindness as a Daily Practice
Kindness is the foundation of compassion. Simple acts of kindness like smiling, listening, or giving a helping hand can make a difference in someone's day. When you choose to be kind, you are choosing to honor the humanity in others.
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Tenderheartedness in Action
To be tenderhearted is to be sensitive to the needs and feelings of others. It means being present and genuinely caring about the experiences of those around you.
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Forgiveness as a Gift
Forgiveness is a powerful act of compassion. It will free you from the chains of resentment and allow you to move forward with a heart unburdened by past hurts.
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Humility In Relationships
Humility is essential in cultivating compassion. It requires you to acknowledge your imperfections and approach others with gentleness and respect.
Living Out Compassion
Living out compassion means being intentional about your interactions. It involves:
Active Listening: Taking the time to listen to others without judgment or interruption.
Offering Support: Being available to help those in need, whether through acts of service, encouragement or simply being present.
Praying for others: Lifting others up in prayer and asking God to give them strength, comfort, and guidance.
Advocating for Justice: Standing up for those who are marginalized and oppressed.
By embodying kindness, tenderheartedness, forgiveness, and humility, we reflect Christ's love in our daily lives.
So, let's strive each day to represent Christ-like compassion.